20 reasons why a gigolo can make a great marketing leader. The sexiest business blog post you will ever read :-). From a great lover to a great CEO.

Have you ever thought what makes the best lover? Have you ever found the answers? If it’s to be true that are you are paid for what you are good at, the representatives of one ­­ancient profession might have answers for you. Since I’ve neither hired neither interviewed one, let me give you my own some tips – use them or misuse them.

Close your eyes for a moment, inhale, exhale… now read on…

1. A great lover makes you disappear. He touches you gently, your body, your mind, your soul, and makes you forget yourself… makes your ego vanish. He disappears himselves and dissolves in you. The sense of separation is no longer present. All your experience is a bright light that blinds you – so pure, so primal, that a tear of unexplainable ultimate joy drops on your cheek. His lips touch yours softly, he gets inside of your body, your mind almost forcefully making you weaponless, he takes you over and you never know where his body ends and yours begins. It’s a sense of oneness beyond comprehension. The tantric state of zen, of no mind. So can a great dreamer, great leader do to you – it leaves you speechless, thoughtless, makes your drop your previous belief systems and conceptions, so you give yourself fully and unconditionally to one long breath together.

2. A great lover makes you melt. Have you ever made love after smoking marihuana? Oh, of course no. None of us have done such terrible thing!  Well, your enemies probably did, so ask them how it was, then ask why exactly those are the best experiences of their lives. It because all your rough edges fade away; all worries, anxieties and intrusive memories become unreal and irrelevant and all there is the present moment.  (What your enemies might not know is that with  diligent  meditation practice you can get high without drugs. Practicing pranayama before jumping in bed with  some hot stuff is highly recommended).  The great leader is not one that gets his crew on dope; he is the one who can calm your monkey-mind, naturally reassure you in a safe ride, even if it’s a ride through a jungle set on fire.

3. A great lover is one that mastered a great dance. He merges with a partner in one astonishing dance. He leads gently and takes your mind places where it never has being before; and all you wish if for the dance to never end, since you can never dance with the same grace on your own. The same is with one’s vision. If you merge with the minds of people you lead, if your merge their perceptions with your vision and capture their imagination, they will want to hold tight to you, as they never accomplish such “nirvana” on their own.

4. A great lover makes you feel special. He doesn’t waste his words on flattery, he genuinely notices your Self in you, your authentic self, he acknowledges your presence… So does a great leader acknowledge your importance in the outcome, your role in his dream that you will make your own.

5. A greater lover is a generous giver. Your desire is his command. He showers you with little gifts just to make you smile. He is full of little surprises just to make your heart to skip a bit. As he enters your bedroom, he immerses in the world of your desires; he intuitively senses your needs and is here to please. Your satisfaction is his greatest aim. In the moment all that matters is your happiness. So does a great entrepreneur – he is driven not by his own ambitions and ego; he is fueled by unstoppable desire to serve.

6. A great lover is a willing receiver. As you gently touch his body, he merges with the touch, he becomes the touch. His body follows your hand, then it moves in a magnificent dance with your body. A great lover receives the generosity of your heart as kindly. So does a great leader. He receives with grace and sincere appreciation.

7. A great lover won’t try to impress you; he will be impressed by you. So does a great leader, he won’t walk around you like a peacock, he will instead make sure that whatever you do decorates your life with the greatest wonders.

8. A great lover is a charmer. He allures you with his words, with a tone of his voice, with a movement of his body. So does a great leader, he knows what impact his physical expressions make on your consciousness, he uses it skillfully to deliver his massage.

9. A great lover is vocal. He moans to communicate his pleasure, he vocalizes his fantasy whispering them in your ears, he vocalizes the desires that he wants you to fulfill. A great leader is a great communicator. He mastered all tools available to him to communicate his goals in such manner that no place to doubts in your mind is left.

10. A great lover is courageous. He is adventurous. He is explorer. So is a great entrepreneur, a great visionary. He takes you places that your mind has never dared to explore on your own.

11. A great lover keeps you guessing. He is ever changing, ever evolving. So does a great leader. With his own resurfacing he presses your “restart” button and makes you start fresh, with no yesterday, and no predictability of tomorrow. Nevertheless he keeps you confident in tomorrow – that’s an art of managing a paradox.

12. A great lover keeps your waiting. Anticipation just makes things spicier, provokes fantasies, it awakens one’s imagination. So does a great entrepreneur, he is great at timing his moves… like a wild cat.

13. A great lover hides under veil of mystery. So does a great leader, once in a while…. not always revealing all answers – he might not even have them. But he asks questions that create the suspense and motivate you to find the answers, to find many alternative answers, and then to find the right answer, one single answer that is true to you.

14. A great lover is playful. So does a great leader. He humors his followers, he entertains them, he tricks and let be tricked once in a while, he laughs with them.

15. A great lover is a BDSM master; he is great in dominating, even better at submitting. So is a great leader; he mastered both – he leads and follows with grace.

16. The greatest lover is one that connects you with “God” (whatever it might mean to you); so is a great visionary. He unites you with something that is beyond you, beyond your community, your nation, your generation, your civilization. It feels greater that anything constructed by your own mind. And you let go of yourself to fully entrust your path to a passionate leader with a great mission.

17. The greatest lover is one that is free. So is the great human… he is free from the past, free from the future; his lungs are full of present… the future is relevant only as a fuel to make the present more intense, more meaningful. He is ultimately free, and he has a great capacity to get you out of your own prison. He knows You, better then you can ever know yourself… unless you realize that you are him, and he is you, and all separations are the act of mind… and the life is a dance, is a flow of the world river that we call life…

And as per 18-20. Why don’t you add them as your comments? I am sure you have plenty of advises in this department. 
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If you enjoyed this article, continuation of my stream of consciousness on this subject can be found in my next article “How to transform your business and become an internationally recognized marketing legend?” (coming soon – bookmark this blog and come again).
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